Hi, I’m Bryony — founder of Evolving Hearts, Tantra practitioner, women’s sexuality and embodiment coach, and couples intimacy guide.

I haven't always felt at home in my body.
Or in my relationships.

And if I'm honest, I still have moments where I don't.

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At 20, I was diagnosed with herpes. It shattered me.
The shame, the guilt — it ran deep. I believed I was broken, unlovable, and somehow “less than.” And I entered relationships from that place — craving love, yet deeply disconnected from myself and my worth. 

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I’ve been married three times and divorced twice. I’ve navigated co-parenting, sex after children, loss, healing, and rediscovering who I am — again and again. For years, I placed my worth in the hands of others. I abandoned my own needs because I truly didn't believe I was worthy of them.

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I used to think sex was just about performance — about what I looked like, or how I was received. But that all changed when Kali the Goddess of death and rebirth, visited me in a dream. She showed me exactly what I needed to do. It was brutal. And it was the beginning of everything.

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I ended my second marriage, started creating rituals, exploring Tantra, feminine embodiment, and shadow work. I stopped hiding. I began reclaiming my body and healing the shame, guilt, and fear I’d carried for so long. I redefined intimacy as something slow, sacred, deeply connected — not just bodies coming together, but souls meeting. Which led me to meeting the love of my life. Because I was finally ready to receive the love he had to give, And I finally felt worthy of receiving it.

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I also made the conscious choice to have an abortion — a rite of passage I honoured with ritual and deep connection to my spirit baby, who I later welcomed earthside when the time was right.

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Before I became a coach, I spent 16 years holding space for women in the beauty industry — through massage, waxing, and deep conversations. I’ve always been attuned to the feminine, holding space for her with reverence. Sacred sexuality and couples intimacy were a natural evolution of the work I’d already been doing with my hands and heart.

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Every part of my journey — the mess, the magic, the medicine — lives in the work I do today. Through my lived experience, I guide women and couples through the same deep reclamation I’ve walked. I blend somatic practices, Tantra, coaching, ritual, and raw, honest connection. I believe our cycles hold power. That pleasure is a birthright. That sex can be healing. And that our stories — especially the ones we hide — are often the key to our liberation. This work is not surface-level. It’s real, embodied, and sacred.

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If you’re feeling disconnected from your body, your desire, your power — you’re not alone. And you don’t have to find your way back alone either.​
 

If you’re ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery, to deepen your relationships, bring more pleasure and connection into your life, or rekindle the spark, I’m here to walk that path with you. 

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​From my heart to yours,

Bryony