About Bryony
Sex Educator | Somatic Sex Coach |
Tantra Practitioner | Author | Artist
Hi, I’m Bryony!
I help women and couples reconnect with their bodies, their pleasure, and each other -- through raw honesty, deep presence, and the courage to feel what’s real.
My work weaves together education, embodiment, and lived experience. I’m not the kind of coach who teaches from theory -- I teach from the messy, beautiful, deeply human journey of my own life.
I’ve been married three times, divorced twice, and I’m a mother of three. I’ve navigated sex after babies, co-parenting, ethical non-monogamy, STIs, abortion, low self-worth, and years of performing instead of receiving. And through it all, I’ve learned how to come back home to myself -- again and again.
At 20, I was diagnosed with herpes. It shattered me. I thought it made me unlovable, broken, and sexually undesirable. It took years to shed that shame and redefine sex as something sacred -- not performative. I learned that intimacy isn’t about being “good in bed,” it’s about being present in your body. Herpes became my teacher -- slowing me down, deepening my awareness, and teaching me the art of true connection.
I’ve also honoured an abortion as a sacred rite of passage, connecting with my spirit baby in ceremony -- a deeply transformative experience that shaped how I hold space for women in their most tender transitions.
And then there was Kali -- the goddess of death and rebirth -- who came to me in a dream during the breakdown of my second marriage. She showed me what I needed to let go of so I could reclaim what I’d abandoned: my voice, my body, my boundaries, and my pleasure. That was my awakening -- and it led me to Tantra, embodiment, and the deep reclamation of feminine wisdom.
Before all this, I spent 16 years in the beauty industry, holding space for women in their most vulnerable moments. That was my first initiation into sacred space holding. I’ve always been attuned to the feminine -- I just had to find the courage to let her lead.
Now, as a Sex Educator, I’m passionate about giving women what most of us never received -- the knowledge and language to understand our own bodies. Because if we truly knew our anatomy, our cycles, our desires, and the pleasure available to us, we would stop seeing ourselves as broken. We’d learn to honour our ever-changing needs and speak our truth -- without guilt or shame.
Today, I work with women who feel disconnected from their bodies or uncertain about their desires, and with couples who are ready to reignite intimacy and rediscover each other. Together, we unlearn the performance, release shame, and make space for what’s honest, connected, and alive.
I’m not afraid to talk about the taboo -- in fact, that’s what sets me apart. Because you are not broken -- and the parts you’ve hidden might be the very keys to your freedom.
If you’re ready to understand your body, awaken your desire, and reclaim pleasure as your birthright -- you’re in the right place.


Qualifications, Certifications & Independent Study
Somatic Sex Coach
I am a certified Somatic Sex Coach through the Yonilicious Academy, having studied extensively from 2024-2025.
Tantra Practitioner
I studied and qualified as a Certified Tantra Practitioner through The Sanctuary of Ananda completing Modules 1, 2, 3 & 4 from 2021-2023. I am proficient in the foundational teachings of Tantra and Tantric An Mo Massage. I practice under the scope of non-genital erotic touch facilitation.
Holistic Life Coach
I studied and qualified as a Holistic Life Coach and Mind Body Practitioner from 2021-2022 through The Mind Body Food Institute.
Certified Meditation Teacher
I completed Modules 1-4 of Meditation Teacher Training, making me a Qualified Meditation Practitioner, through The Sanctuary of Ananda.
Trauma Informed Eros Fascilitator
I have undergone specialised Trauma-informed training around holding and creating safe space for groups of people in the realm of sexuality and intimacy through Evolving Eros.
Trauma Aware Practitioner
Specialised training around Trauma Aware Care through Milly Taylor Creative, a lived experience Specialist and Educator.
Advanced Beauty Therapist
I have a Diploma in Advanced Beauty Therapy, studying at Helene Abicair College of Advanced Beauty Therapy in 2004-2005. I have been holding space for women, waxing vulvas, and performing body treatments and massage on people for nearly two decades.
The Wheel of Consent
I implement the teachings of Wheel of Consent® as developed by Dr. Betty Martin, in a lot of my practices and have learnt through all the free information on her website, but I have not studied with Betty or the School of Consent. For more information visit www.schoolofconsent.org.
Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course by Jaiya
I have personally studied and implemented material through the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough course for my own knowledge, but I am not a certified Erotic Blueprint Coach. I often reference the Erotic Blueprints in my work because they have been life changing for me. For more information visit https://missjaiya.com/.
Reiki Level 1
I have been attuned since 2020 in Reiki Level 1 Training, Reiki Healing Mikao Usui, through Gabriele and then again attuned in Shoden Usui Reiki Ryoho in 2023, through The Sanctuary of Ananda. I am certified to practice on myself, family and friends. Although I am not qualified to charge clients, Reiki is energy, therefore you may feel the energy come through, in my hands on treatments.
Disclaimer:
I am a certified Somatic Sex Coach and Tantra Practitioner, not a licensed sex therapist, psychologist, or medical professional. My services are designed to support you in exploring and enhancing your sexual wellness, intimacy, and self-connection through holistic and body-based practices.
Please be aware that I do not diagnose, treat, or provide medical or psychological advice for any conditions. The tools, practices, and guidance offered during our sessions are educational and experiential, intended to empower you in your personal journey. If you are dealing with sexual trauma, it is imperative that you also seek support from a qualified mental health professional or trauma-informed therapist outside of our coaching program. My role is to complement your healing journey, not replace necessary therapeutic or medical care.
By engaging in coaching with me, you acknowledge and agree to take responsibility for your own well-being and seek appropriate professional support when necessary.
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