Thoughtfulness - The biggest turn on ever?

When I first met my husband, the one thing I remember saying about him was how thoughtful he was.

He really seemed to care - not just on the surface, but in a way that showed he was paying attention. Even though he barely knew me, the things he said revealed that he wanted to know me. He wanted to understand me.

He knew I had children, so he would say things with them in mind.

He knew I had a business, so he would ask about it with genuine interest.

He listened - and then he acted in ways that reflected what he’d heard.

That’s the thing about thoughtfulness: it makes you feel seen.

It makes you feel important.

Like you’re not just an afterthought, but considered.

Worthy of time, energy, and attention.

You feel like you matter.

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